Help make the Santa Barbara Foundation Behavioral Health and Resilience Educational Series More Personalized, Interactive, and Intelligent, and Directly Applicable to the Communities of Your Greatest Concern.

An App to Fill the Gap!

For Benefactors and Sponsors of the Santa Barbara Behavioral Health Educational Series

Paying Forward Charter Sponsor Packages

  • Our Initial Donation Goal for This Project is $50,000.

Use of Funds:

  • Refining the present program
  • Building, testing, and marketing a special “App to Fill the Gap”
  • Developing other special educational programs in this Behavioral Health Series.
  • Making these programs freely available to economically disadvantaged, minority, and vulnerable members of the community.


  • Please make your tax-deductible contribution payable directly to “Resilient Santa Barbara Fund” at the Santa Barbara Foundation
  • For more please click the FUND button on the top right of your screen.

Springs of Amethysts- $ 100

  • Public Recognition as a Community Health Charter Sponsor
  • Signed individual copies of Piloting through Chaos—The Explorer’s Mind (Julian Gresser/2013)
  • Free gift membership in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange

Rivulets of Moonstones - $500

  • Amethysts awards plus:
  • 5 Free Gift Memberships in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange
  • Resilience Reflex Ball

Sparkles of Opal - $1K

  • All of Amethyst and Moonstone awards plus:
  • Public lecture in your honor
  • 10 Free Gift Memberships in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange

Fountains of Pearls - $5K

  • All of Amethyst, Moonstone, and Opal awards plus:
  • ½ workshop/ training/consultation with any organization or company of your choice in Santa Barbara
  • 15 Free Gift Memberships in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange

Jade Eddies - $10K

  • Amethysts, Moonstone, Opal, and Pearl awards, plus:
  • Two ½ workshop/training/consultation with any organization or company of your choice in Santa Barbara
  • 20 Free Gift Memberships in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange

Sapphire Brooks of Laughing Hearts - $25K

  • All of Amethyst, Moonstone, Opal, Pearl, and Jade awards plus:
  • 20 Free Gift Memberships in the Self-Care Multiplier Exchange
  • Development and delivery of specialized Behavioral Health and Resilience Program for communities of special concern or interest to you.

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Ruby Streams of Laughing Hearts - $35K

  • All of the Amethyst, Moonstone, Opal, Pearl, Jade, and Sapphire awards plus:
  • 10 hours of dedicated free consulting time to community causes of highest priority to sponsor
  • One full day (1) training program with materials for organization of choice to you.
  • Special prize award to designated cause of choice.

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Diamond Rivers of Laughing Hearts - $50K

  • All of Amethyst, Moonstone, Opal, Sapphire, Ruby awards plus:
  • Two full day (1) training programs with materials for organizations of your choice.
  • Matching grants to designated organizations of choice any time within the next three years.

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The Resilient Negotiator:

Realizing Your Passion,
Advancing Your Cause

Piloting Through Chaos: The Explorer's Mind

PDF Book

Module 1 On Obstacles and Reverses: Turning Adversity to Advantage
Unit 1 How Happy are You in Your Work or Cause?
Module 2 Your Greatest Negotiation Challenges?
Unit 1 What are Your Greatest Negotiation Challenges? Setting a Baseline
Unit 2 Resilience Defined
Unit 3 What is Your “System”?
Unit 4 What is Your Negotiator’s Compass?
Unit 5 Who are your Negotiation Role Models, Coaches, and Mentors?
Unit 6 Comparisons with Other Negotiation Methodologies

Module 3 Resilient Negotiation Basics (1)
Unit 1 Case # 1—The Swedish Builder
Unit 2 Resilient Negotiation Defined

Module 4 Resilient Negotiation Basics (2)
Unit 1 Integrity
Unit 2 Big Heart Intelligence and Integral Resilience
Unit 3 Negotiation and Decision Making: Are Negotiations Emotional or Conceptual?
Unit 4 What Do We Really Need, and Why This Question is Crucial in Negotiations?
Unit 5 Emotional Balance
Unit 6 The Shadow Game
Unit 7 Flow and Timing — Action Response Reaction
Unit 8 Character is Destiny
Unit 9 Seeing the Big Picture

Module 5 The 5 Rings™ as a Universal Guide to Decision Making in Negotiations
Unit 1 The 5 Core Values
Unit 2 Ring # 1--Know Yourself (Vision & Imagination)
Unit 3 Ring 2—Reconnaissance (Curiosity & Wonder)
Unit 4 Ring 3--Preparing the Presentation (Cultivating Will, Steadiness, and Trust in the Connection)
Unit 5 Ring 4—Presentation
Unit 6 Ring 5--After Presentation(Commitment)

Unit 7 Summarizing the 5 Rings System
Module 6 The Art of the Question
Unit 1 The Art of the Question (in science, negotiations, and all forms of inquiry)
Unit 2 Forms of Questions and their Results—Brush and Scalpel
Unit 3 Questions and their Relationship to Need and Pain
Unit 4 Deep Listening
Unit 5 Nourishing
Unit 6 Connectors
Unit 7 Checkpoint (3+): Confirming discoveries
Unit 8 The Reverse
Unit 9 Critical Parent
Unit 10 The Pendulum
Unit 11 The Reverberating Question

Module 7 Going Behind the Mask
Unit 1 Going Behind the Mask
Unit 2 Player Integrity Profiles (PIPS)
Unit 3 Practical Applications

Module 8 Practice Case - Applying The Resilient Negotiator in Public Advocacy for Environmental/Health Justice
Unit 1 Practice Case: Hexavalent Chromium

Module 9 Resilience Multiplier Advantage: Paying Forward and Creating Your Own Luck
Unit 1 Resilience Multiplier Advantage

Module 10 Negotiating in Teams
Unit 1 Negotiating in Teams

Module 11 Analytics
Unit 1 Analytics
Unit 2 Action Log
Unit 3 Player Integrity Profile
Unit 4 The Weekly Log
Unit 5 Explorers Wheel
Unit 6 Weekly Resilience Tracking
Unit 7 5 Rings Diagram
Unit 8 IRQ Baseline Change Tracking

Module 12 Essentials of Mastery
Unit 1 How to Practice
Unit 2 Coach’s and Player’s Compact
Unit 3 New Programs and Initiatives in 2019

Module 13 TRN System Glossary
Unit 1 Glossary